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Developmental Milestones: Development From Age 3-4 Years

Developmental Milestones: Development From Age 3-4 Years

Development from age 3 years is usually one of the best years. Tantrums are lessening, independence is growing, speech and creativity are blossoming, and most children are wonderfully social and outgoing. Overall, it’s getting better and better at everything and becoming an independent child, for better or worse.

Motor skills

Motor skills continue to improve. Children should be able to draw more complex figures and use scissors by age 4. Coordination improves, so being able to balance on one leg or go upstairs one step at a time without holding on is normal. “Sports” activities also get much better, with more accurate kicking and throwing, sometimes catching a ball, and hopefully less tripping over their own feet.

Speech

We look for speech to continue to blossom in clarity and complexity. Children at age 3 should be able to communicate well with parents and other children, and by 4 years speech should be almost clear even to strangers. Children should be learning shapes and colors, counting, and developing very imaginative stories. Many children love to sing more at this age.

Tantrums

Tantrums should be lessening as you and your child can talk more about frustrations and feelings, but it is still normal until well past age 4. Children often get more cautious at this age and recognize danger.

Independence

Most children after age 3 are very independent, though some (especially boys) can be less eager to do things on their own. Typically at school, most children are very independent, but at home, that
may not be as true. Choosing clothes, wanting to dress themselves, and wanting to run their own lives as they understand more and more they are an independent person is expected.

Every child is different and hits different milestones at different times, often based on just what they love to do the most. It’s important to remember that Pediatricians define a normal time for a milestone as the point 75% of children can do something – so it’s normal for 25% of children to not have reached that stage. If worried, as always, talk to your Pediatrician.

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About Author

This article is written by Dr Leo Hamilton, who is a US board-certified Paediatrician since 2003. Dr Leo relocated to Singapore in 2011, caring for expat and Singaporean children from newborns at delivery to teenagers. Beyond his background in Hematology/Oncology, he has an interest in asthma, behavioural issues (primarily ADHD), teen health, and modern management of routine childhood illnesses such as ear infections, bronchiolitis, and pneumonia.

Appointments will be unavailable from 23 December 2024 to 1 January 2025 as Dr Leo will be on leave.